再见爱人 第三季
再见爱人 第三季

再见爱人 第三季

剧情简介

] If you feel that your life is stagnant, or that you are suffocating in an intimate relationship, then this show is simply an accurate tonic to wake you up. It throws three couples who are on the verge of collapse into the desolate and magnificent wilderness of Northwest China, allowing them to pierce through the festering sores hidden under a decent life during the eighteen-day journey. Here we have Fu Shouer, who used to be invincible on the debate stage, she and her husband Liu Yi, who has been a supporting role for more than ten years, are a model of a strong woman and a weak man in the eyes of others, but only they themselves know how terrifying the silence is when they can't even argue. There are also model Ji Huanbo and Wang Shiqing, who seem like a high-pressure control game, and a ten-year-long nurturing love has finally turned into an airtight cage. And what makes young people feel the most heartbroken is Wang Shuishui and Zhang Shuo, an unfinished wedding has become an unhealable chasm between the two. The guest lineup in the observation room is even more brilliant. Melody, who has just undergone a major turning point in her life, brings a kind of thoroughness and ease, while Huang Zhizhong dissects human nature as accurately as a scalpel. This is not just a trip, but more like a trial about the self. When the camera focuses on those moments of embarrassment, anger, and even despair, you will find that the most hurtful thing in a marriage is often not cheating or betrayal, but the desire to share that is worn away day after day, and the loneliness of sitting together but feeling like there's a galaxy between them. [

观影点评

] When watching this film, I often feel a sense of drowning, followed by a clear and refreshing feeling. The most ruthless thing about it is that it doesn't sell misery or dog blood, but instead lays out the most hidden and embarrassing grains in marriage for you to see. Especially Fu Shouer's couple is like dropping a deep-water bomb on the emotional world of middle-aged people. You will find that two good people, two people who still have feelings for each other, can even make their days so speechless. That kind of love is still there but the energy is exhausted, the fatigue is more heartbreaking than any intense conflict. Wang Shuishui's couple is like a mirror, reflecting the childishness and avoidance of many modern couples when facing responsibility. The most fascinating thing about this program is its authenticity and literariness. The sunset in the Northwest, the sky full of wind and sand, combined with the guests' wise and occasionally venomous comments, adds a philosophical color to this human tragedy. It does not force a happy ending, nor does it deliberately persuade them to separate, but it simply tells you that admitting that you don't love or admit that you can' 【电影介绍】如果你觉得生活是一潭死水,或者正在一段亲密关系里感到窒息,那这档节目简直就是一剂精准的清醒剂。它把三对处于不同崩溃边缘的夫妻丢进大西北荒凉又壮阔的旷野里,让他们在十八天的旅程中,把那些藏在体面生活下的脓疮一个接一个地挑破。 这里有曾经在辩论场上所向披靡的傅首尔,她和那个甘当绿叶十几年的丈夫刘毅,在外人眼里是女强男弱的模范,可只有他们自己知道,那种连吵架都吵不起来的寂静有多可怕。还有名模纪焕博和王诗晴,他们之间像是一场高压的控制游戏,长达十年的养成系爱恋,最终却变成了密不透风的牢笼。而最让年轻人扎心的,莫过于王睡睡和张硕,一场未竟的婚礼成了横在两人之间永远无法愈合的鸿沟。 观察室里的嘉宾阵容更是神来之笔,刚经历人生大转弯的Melody带着一种透彻的洒脱,黄执中则像拿着手术刀一样精准剖析人性,papi酱则用最冷静的视角拆解那些情感套路。这不只是一场旅行,更像是一场关于自我的审判。当镜头怼到那些尴尬、愤怒甚至绝望的瞬间,你会发现,原来婚姻里最伤人的往往不是出轨或背叛,而是那些日复一日消磨掉的分享欲,以及明明坐在一起却像隔着星河的孤独。 【观影点评】看这部片子的时候,我经常会有一种溺水感,紧接着又是一阵透彻心扉的凉爽。它最狠的地方在于,它不卖惨也不撒狗血,而是把婚姻中最隐秘、最难堪的那些颗粒感摊开给你看。 特别是傅首尔那一对,简直是给中年人的情感世界投下了一枚深水炸弹。你会发现,原来两个好人、两个彼此依然有感情的人,竟然也可以把日子过到无话可说。那种爱还在但能量耗尽的疲惫,比任何激烈的冲突都更让人心碎。而王睡睡那一对则像是一面镜子,照出了很多现代情侣在面对责任时的幼稚与逃避,看的人血压升高却又忍不住对号入座。 这节目最迷人的地方在于它的真实感和文学性。大西北的落日、漫天的风沙,配合着观察室嘉宾们那些充满智慧又偶尔毒舌的点评,让这出人间悲喜剧多了一层哲学色彩。它没有强行大团圆,也没有刻意劝离,它只是告诉你,承认不爱了或者承认爱不动了,其实需要比维持现状更大的勇气。这不仅是一部婚姻纪实,更是一本写给所有成年人的情感避坑指南,看完之后,你一定会对身边的那个人产生全新的思考。